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| 1lb 8oz of Gold |
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| 1lb 10oz of even Golder. |
You'll never make a difference being the same as everyone else
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| 1lb 8oz of Gold |
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| 1lb 10oz of even Golder. |
Normally on Fathers Day, dad and I would have met up on the riverbank somewhere before sun rise and then spent the morning fishing and chatting together. Catching a fish was never important, just being there together. Obviously this year that wasn't to be, he definitely wouldn't have wanted me to sit around moping though, he would have wanted me to go and get after those tench again, so that's what I did. I made sure to spend some time reminiscing about the good times we spent together and even took a bottle of (nonalcoholic) beer to raise to the old man.
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| Cheers dad x |
I wasn't going to mess about this time, I went armed with a trio of Greys 2lb barbel rods and Shimano reels loaded with 12lb mainline, no more messing about with perch rigs. Their time will come, it's too weedy to fish light enough for them to work efficiently at the moment. There were only two reasonable spots available to fish in my chosen swim, the same two as last time strangely enough. One in a rare clear spot and one on top of a gravel bar. 10 hours drifted by in the dappled sunlight under the trees before anything happened, a screaming run from the rod fishing the top of the gravel bar took me completely by surprise and resulted in a cracking fish of 7lb 1oz. I had absolutely no confidence in that rod, having never hooked a fish off of one of the bars in this lake. Shows you what i know!
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| Magic. |
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| This place has got right under my skin |
Tight Lines,
Benno.
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| 5lb 8oz. I was lucky to get this fish in on those old elastic bands. |
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| My PB at 3:14, caught from our local river in a big flood |
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| The biggest I’ve managed from the syndicate so far at 3:11 |
Since my last blog offering, life has very much got in the way of my fishing career. Being self employed, it's important that I make hay whilst the sun shines and the sun has been shining brightly in my little plumbing world. I have managed a couple of trips down to the syndicate, unfortunately, the tench spawned early this year due to the sudden increase in water temperature caused by the tropical spell of sunshine we had in May, this coupled with the explosion of weed growth and natural food availability has made the fishing even more tricky. I did manage to land a couple of tench, the best of which being a 6lb 8oz male fish, but alas, nothing which troubled the 10lb target I’ve set myself down there. The 7lber I had caught in the first blog has been the biggest so far this season.
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| 6lb 8oz of syndicate tench |
I've been able to drop in for some short sessions with the float rod on one of our club waters and have managed to land a couple of tench, the biggest one going just over 5lb, the size of the fish isn’t really relevant if you can catch them on a centerpin and a float rod. With that in mind, I’m heading back down the syndicate tomorrow armed with two glass fibre Bruce and Walker MKiv’s and one split cane Bruce and Walker MKiv, believe it or not, the glass fibre rods are mine and have just been resto-modded with Fuji reel seats, the split cane is of course Dads, I’ve teamed the split cane up with a JW Youngs Rolling Pin to try and at least make it look like I’m using an appropriate vintage reel, his other two split canes are so worn out in the handles that I’ve had to drop them off at the rod builders for some new cork. Don’t worry, I won’t get Fuji reel seats put on them, I’ll carry on with the old rings.
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| 5lb of gold on the pin |
Hopefully I’ll have something else to write about after tomorrows outing, I’m going for an all-natural bait approach, low resistance rigs and bite indication with a view to potentially hooking the perch, eels, tench, carp or anything else that likes a juicy worm… Tufties are a distinct possibility as well (as is a blank!)
Tight lines,
Benno.
You know when you have a really good idea, and then you have to do it? Yes… well I seem to do that a lot! My most recent idea involved me running/ walking a mile a day in May in memory of my dad and Bev, in the hopes of raising some money for Cancer Research UK and the Bowel Babe fund.
I can do that, no problem, I thought to myself as I typed my name into the “sign up here” box! I don’t know why I had so much self-confidence, I haven’t run more than about 50 meters since 1996. Anyway, I clicked the button, and for the whole of this month I have somehow managed to do this challenge.
Mile 26 was always going to be significant for me because
dad ran 3 marathons in his life, and one of those was when he was 46, the age
that I am now. And although it has taken me 26 days, and not 4 hours and 20
minutes, I think he might still be proud of me for getting this far.
I am not a natural runner, by any stretch of the imagination, but knowing that I’ve been doing this challenge in memory of my dad, and feeling like he’s been at my side a lot of the time has motivated me to keep going, along with such kind words, support and donations from so many of you, so thank you.
Like most of the UK, we are mid heatwave here in sunny Kent, and the 26th May was like standing in an oven, so I concluded that running an entire mile, even in the evening was a bit dangerous! Instead, I thought that, in honour of my dad and his love of birding, I would do a birdwatching mile to see how many birds I could see and hear on my mile… I think dad would have approved.
So once the air was of a slightly less sizzling
temperature I set off for my mile.
Before I’d stepped out of the gate, I was greeted by two plump wood pigeons and a collared dove, as well as the parliament of rooks who live in the trees behind my house.
I had wanted to see some spectacular bird of prey, the buzzards had been circling over the garden all day, or maybe the barn owls that hunt across the fields, but I had no luck with that. However, I did see lots of swallows darting around over the fields, a pheasant, blackbirds, jackdaws, a song thrush, a robin and a few crows.
I knew that there were more birds around me that I could hear and not see, and Benno had told me about an app called Merlin, which you can put on your phone, and it records and identifies birdsong. Although we both spent years with dad wandering through wild places, our knowledge of birdsong is not a patch on his.
So, even though he would probably not have approved, I used the app to see what else was around me, and it added a wren and a dunnock to my little list. I was quite pleased that I hadn’t missed too much.
I know that these apps are not always accurate, and they are nowhere near as good as my dad’s well-trained ears, but it seemed to work for these purposes, and I am learning a lot about the different bird songs through using it.
So, as I plod on through the last few miles of this 31-mile challenge, I would like to say a massive thank you to everyone who has supported me and sent kind messages about my dad. We have raised over £1000 so far for Cancer Research UK and the Bowel Babe Fund. If you would like to add to that total, this is the link. (Click here.)
Benno and I are still trying to work out how to reply to comments on here, we are so grateful to everyone who has taken the time to write them, we read them all.
In other news:
Aside from running, Evelyn and I have also been busy
visiting places and getting out in nature as much as we can. A recent trip to
Leeds Castle was pretty spectacular. There were plenty of birds across the
whole estate, and Evelyn made friends with the ducks! She also loved the
falconry and has decided that’s what she wants to do for her birthday this
year.
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| The Red/Black Kite who lives at Leeds Castle |
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| Egyptian Goose on the wall at Leeds Castle |
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| Making friends with the ducks |
We also had a wander around Goodnestone Park Gardens,
with lunch (and strawberry ice cream), where we found newts and tadpoles,
beautiful flowers and a Green-Veined White butterfly.
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| Green Veined White butterfly... I think. |
And of course, Evelyn has been busy in the garden and at
farm school, growing vegetables and hanging out with baby goats and enormous
alpacas. What a life!
The moth trap has been on overnight, so I am about to
empty it with her. I am intrigued to see what we have caught… I may be asking
you all lots of moth related questions, once I’ve finished the 31 miles, that
is! Thanks for reading.
Sarah and Evelyn.
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| The fish are just a bonus when the world looks like this. |
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| It's a good job Dad taught me to stop and appreciate nature whilst fishing, if it was solely about catching fish, I'd be a miserable sod fishing this place! |
Since Dad left us, I’ve managed eight trips down to my local syndicate water, first a couple of quick morning sessions after the elusive, but sizeable perch that live there, then a switch over to do six day sessions for the tench. I’ve only done one previous spring season on this lake fishing for the tench, and from what I remember, and my diary entries, I caught fish pretty much every time I cast a line into the water. This season has been very, very different. The perch fishing almost went completely by the wayside this year as I was busy either looking after dad, or helping to organise the funeral and everything that goes with that, so it was decided that I’d skip that and go straight after the tench, easy right? Important to note at this point that I have been wearing my dad’s favourite fishing jumper on every single occasion, not entirely sure why, it just makes me feel like he’s still with me. When I look back at all of the really big or really special fish that I’ve caught in my life, he was always the one who slid the net under them for me, followed by a fist bump and a big smile, I know that he can’t do that for me anymore, but this jumper is the next best thing. I have become convinced that the old man has been jinxing me via the jumper, purely because he thinks it's funny.
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| 7lb 2oz of most welcome gravel pit tench. |
I have one last thing to say at this point,
I’m really going to miss that soppy old sod.
Benno.
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| Early morning sunrise |
It’s been almost two months since I lost my dad, and life has been a whirlwind of admin, funeral arrangements, house clearing, mine and Benno’s birthdays, and my usual life of parenting three children, mixed with a generous helping of grief and a lot of tears.
There have been many days when I have wanted to hide away from it all, to stay in bed under the duvet and pretend that none of this was happening, but I know that wouldn’t really have helped me, even though it was extremely tempting.
Growing up as Dylan’s daughter, and also being a qualified eco-therapist, (someone who helps people to connect with nature for therapeutic healing… yes, my dad did roll his eyes at this!) I know only too well the healing power of connecting with the natural world, even in the darkest of times. And so, over the past 8 weeks, I have sought out as much connection with nature as I possibly could in the brief moments between all of the relentless jobs.
There is something about being in nature that soothes my soul, and I am lucky to live in a rural village surrounded by wildlife. Even as I am typing this, I can hear an entire dawn chorus outside my window, and I think there is a mouse on the doorstep!
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| Seven-spot ladybird on Evelyn's jumper |
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| A collared dove in our apple tree |
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| Spring lambs |
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| Cherry blossom |
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| Peacock butterfly under the cherry trees |
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| Peanut thief! We watch him for hours. |
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| Evelyn in her happy place, growing flowers and vegetables. |
Whilst clearing the house, Benno and I have rediscovered all of dad’s notebooks, dating right back to 1992, which are full of meticulous records and lists of the birds, moths and fish that he had encountered each year. It’s really lovely to have his handwritten notes and thoughts on life in hard copy, it feels like a little part of him is still here.
Occasionally he would also add little annotated illustrations, and yesterday I got a bit lost in some of the notebooks, and I thought you might like to see a few of these tiny drawings.
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To end my first official blog post, I wanted to share with you that I have embarked on a challenge that is completely out of my comfort zone. I am running/ jogging 31 miles in May (a mile a day) to raise money for The Bowel Babe bowel cancer research fund, and Cancer research UK, in memory of my dad.
I will be very honest here, running is definitely not my thing and so this is a huge challenge for me. I have been to the running shop to get myself some proper shoes for this momentous event, which seem to be helping me and my knees so far, and I have managed to raise a massive £591 already, which I am so pleased about. If anyone would like to donate this is the link. Click here.
I will of course keep you updated on progress as the month goes on.
Thank you for reading my first official blog post, I hope you have enjoyed it.
Sarah and Evelyn.