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An individual, of no great importance, who is unable to see the natural world as a place for competition. I catch fish, watch birds, derive immense pleasure from simply looking at butterflies, moths, bumble-bees, etc - without the need for rules! I am Dylan and this is my blog - if my opinions offend? Don't bother logging on again - simple!

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Thursday, 27 March 2025

Everything is on "hold"

 I've not posted anything since Sunday because of Bev's health issues. What was originally thought to be a trapped nerve in her back, is actually a cracked vertebrae and it's required two days in A&E, at QEQM Hospital, Margate, plus a parking fee of £17.60 for the privilege, before discovering that it might actually be bone cancer. This is still to be confirmed, but the doctors seemed sure that it was having reviewed the MRI scans of her back. Obviously, this is now top priority in our world and thoughts about Carp, or anything else for that matter, have to play second fiddle to this singular issue. I would guess that the garden will now feature highly in my natural history experiences, whilst my Bruno walks will have to be restricted to Minster Marshes, just because they are closest to home should Bev need my assistance at short notice?

Tufted Tortrix - Acleris cristana

I will continue to use the blog to tell my version of the story, as events unfold, purely because it helps me to cope with the situation. I don't expect everyone else to see things the way I do, but if by sharing our journey I can assist a single other individual experiencing the same type of trauma, then it is worth doing?

Sill regularly visiting the garden feeding station

Moth trapping and Save Minster Marshes recording might be all I have to offer over the coming weeks/months. I'll do my very best to remain positive, yet might have a few wobbles along the way?

12 comments:

  1. Oh shit Dyl. Will be thinking of Bev and you and hoping things get better.

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    1. Thanks Derek, some testing times ahead, so much appreciated - Dyl

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  2. Dyl, you and Bev can be guaranteed on my full support at this time. Thanks to our NHS. Bev is in good hands. Good luck.

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    1. Cheers Ric,
      The staff within the NHS are incredible, just a shame that the entire system is being pushed beyond breaking point due to political interference and incompetence - Dyl

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  3. Wishing Bev a speedy recovery and hope it's treatable, as well as your health Dyl. Take care.

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    1. Thanks Marc - it will be a rough ride, but we're a solid pair and have support from an amazingly tight-knit family - Dyl

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  4. Sorry to hear that unhappy news Dyl. Despite never having met, Blogland is a small world and it feels like we have been close neighbours for a good few years. My best wishes to you both.

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    1. Cheers Gav, not only do we inhabit Blogland but also have the shared acquaintance of a certain Ric Francis. Bev and I very much appreciate the support being offered by friends, family and the visitors to my blog. All we can do now is place our complete faith in the medical professionals and hope that they have the answers to our problems? Thanks once again - Dyl

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  5. Oh Dyl so sorry to hear the diagnosis regarding Bev. Our thoughts are with you both wishing Bev a speedy recovery. I too am suffering cracked vertebrae and have clear understanding of the pain and suffering endured.

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    1. Morphine and Cocodamol rule the roost, at present, and it's clear to see why folk can get addicted to such powerful drugs. Hopefully we'll get an idea as to how the treatment will evolve, and a timescale, in the next few days? Cheers for taking time to comment - Dylan

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  6. Im sorry to hear about Bev,I will be thinking of you both & wishing Bev a speedy recovery

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    1. Thanks Phil, it's fingers crossed and all our faith in the medical team who'll be treating Bev. - Dylan

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