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Tuesday, 13 May 2025

RIP Bev

 At 11.40 hrs, this morning, Bev passed away, peacefully, in our bungalow. Her battle with cancer is now ended and I am forever grateful to the carers, nurses and Pilgrims Hospice staff who have ensured that the final part of her journey was as pain and stress free as was possible. 

Beverley Denise "Wraftie" 19.03.1958 - 13.05.2025
Sleep well beautiful.

With everything that now has to be dealt with my blogging will be erratic, to say the least, but I have every intention of getting back into the groove once this chapter has been concluded. As an individual I am extraordinarily fortunate to have such a strong family, added to a tight knit bunch of friends and neighbours, who will ensure that I am well supported during this painful time.

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36 comments:

  1. Derek Faulkner13 May 2025 at 14:28

    I don't know why Dyl, because I only know the two of you through your blog, but I found that sudden announcement today quite emotional. To lose such a beautiful lady must be quite heartbreaking, I'm sad for you.

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    1. Dylan Wrathall14 May 2025 at 13:42

      Thanks Derek,
      Even though I knew it was coming, nothing prepared me for the moment. - Dyl

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  2. Stewart13 May 2025 at 15:48

    So sorry Dyl, thinking of you and wishing you all the strength to cope...

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  3. Ric13 May 2025 at 17:05

    Dyl, I'm so sorry. Other words seem inadequate right now. Take care of yourself as best you can dear friend. We're all with you. Best wishes, Ric.

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    1. Dylan Wrathall14 May 2025 at 13:45

      Ric, even a wordsmith as gifted as Shakespeare couldn't find the right ones under these circumstances. Your comment is still very comforting during this period - Dyl

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  4. Anonymous13 May 2025 at 17:59

    Hi Dylan . . I have personally never meet you but tonight I have a heavy heart and feel so sad for your loss . Just through your blogs you are an amazing person and an brilliant couple. RIP BEV. All our love from Birmingham. Nick the eel angler. .xx

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    1. Dylan Wrathall14 May 2025 at 13:46

      Hi Nick - many thanks for these kind thoughts - Dylan

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  5. Marc Heath13 May 2025 at 18:37

    Lost for words Dyl for you and your family. I never met Bev but felt I knew her well through the blog. Hang on to all those amazing memories. My deepest condolences.

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    1. Dylan Wrathall14 May 2025 at 13:47

      Cheers Marc, your thoughts are very welcome during this testing time - Dyl

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  6. Anonymous13 May 2025 at 18:52

    So sorry to hear this sad news Dylan , thinking off you .nick s

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    1. Dylan Wrathall14 May 2025 at 13:48

      Thanks Nick, your comment is much appreciated - Dyl

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  7. Anonymous13 May 2025 at 19:05

    Thinking of you Dylan , as said by others have been following your blog for ages and although never met you or Bev it almost felt like I knew you both . So sad that it’s turned out like this , really good to hear that you have great support and best wishes for the future. Stay strong. Ian

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    1. Dylan Wrathall14 May 2025 at 13:50

      Hi Ian, kind words and thoughts - most welcome at the moment, so thank you - Dylan

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  8. Anonymous13 May 2025 at 19:08

    So sorry for your loss Dylan. God Bless.

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  9. Bureboyblog13 May 2025 at 20:47

    Sad news Dylan.

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    1. Dylan Wrathall14 May 2025 at 13:53

      BB - probably the toughest test of my life?

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  10. Anonymous14 May 2025 at 07:05

    Very sad news.. Be brave....Best wishes ChrisG

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    1. Dylan Wrathall14 May 2025 at 13:55

      Thanks Chris - my family will ensure I remain strong, although I certainly don't feel it at present. - Dylan

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  11. Andy Larkins14 May 2025 at 08:28

    Hi Dyl

    I am deeply sorry to hear about the passing of your dear wife Bev. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. I can't imagine the pain and feeling of utter loss that you are going through at this difficult time. May the beautiful memories of your time together bring you peace.

    Stay strong and take care brother.

    Andy

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    1. Dylan Wrathall14 May 2025 at 13:59

      Cheers for this Andy. Although still in shock, I am over the initial pain. There's every chance we'll cross paths down at the syndicate, in the next couple of weeks, as Matt has been incredibly generous with an offer to Ben. All the best - Dyl

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  12. Norman McCanch14 May 2025 at 09:44

    Just heard your sad news while birding at Grove, pleaeaccept my condolences and do let me know if I can help. Look after yourself Dyl, best wishes Norman

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    1. Dylan Wrathall14 May 2025 at 14:01

      Thanks Norman,
      I'm a bit gutted I missed you, this morning, as I bumped into David Feast and Martyn W whilst wandering around the reserve. Your kind words are most welcome at this difficult time - Dyl

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  13. Bob49014 May 2025 at 11:40

    Dyl So sorry to hear your sad news. Cherish your memories.

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    1. Dylan Wrathall14 May 2025 at 14:05

      Bob, my memories are strong and etched in my very being. We were together for twenty five, very enjoyable & eventful, years. All my love to you and Wendy - Dyl

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  14. Granborough.Amateur.Photography14 May 2025 at 12:10

    Oh how sad, so sorry to read this post. Our thoughts are with you through this tough time. Phil & Katie George

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    1. Dylan Wrathall14 May 2025 at 14:08

      Hi Phil,
      You've completed the set, as Gill has sent me a lovely text message with very similar sentiments. Thanks for taking time to comment as I am overwhelmed by the level of support being offered via this blogging platform. Love to you & Katie - take care - Dylan

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  15. Anonymous14 May 2025 at 16:45

    So sorry to hear your sad news Dylan…Thinking of you and Ben at this heartbreaking time.. such a loss for you all… Love Gerald and Rose x

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    1. Dylan Wrathall14 May 2025 at 21:24

      Many thanks for the kind thoughts at this difficult time - Dylan

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  16. Phil15 May 2025 at 17:02

    Im so sorry to read this Dylan,My thoughts are with you your family & friends,may Bev rest in eternal peace xxx

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  17. The Essex Scribbler16 May 2025 at 05:30

    So sorry to hear of your loss. Best wishes.

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  18. Wim16 May 2025 at 10:15

    Best wishes in all sorrow and mourning, Dylan & family.
    Wim

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  19. Anonymous23 May 2025 at 09:14

    dyl not checked the blog for a while, so sorry for your loss take care Ron T and Olwyn

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  20. Peter Young23 May 2025 at 17:32

    Sorry for the late response I'm so sorry to hear you have loss Bev. I didn't know she was ill you must be heart broken I hope the family are given you lots of support at this sad time. You keep well you never know we might bump into each other some day in the future. All the best Peter

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  21. Gareth Craddock24 May 2025 at 21:16

    Dear Dylan, You've been in my thoughts these past few weeks, since we last spoke. I'm only just reading this today and I'm very, very saddened. Please accept my most sincere condolences, old friend- Speak Soon, Gareth Craddock

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