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An individual, of no great importance, who is unable to see the natural world as a place for competition. I catch fish, watch birds, derive immense pleasure from simply looking at butterflies, moths, bumble-bees, etc - without the need for rules! I am Dylan and this is my blog - if my opinions offend? Don't bother logging on again - simple!

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Sunday, 13 April 2025

We've had better days

Bev's cancer diagnosis was confirmed on Friday and I have no desire to expand upon this news. "Treatable, but not curable" was Dr. Podder's assessment during our consultation. Family, friends and neighbours have been amazing with their genuine offers of support. We now await the outcome of an Oncology Dept decision as to how we move forward? I should have known that things were going badly, when a Booted Eagle was flying over my garden, whilst Bev and I were at The Estuary View Medical Centre, Whitstable, for her CT scan. Fishing, year listing and the vast majority of other aspects of normal life must now play second fiddle to the reality of dealing with Bev's medical requirements.

Little Ringed Plovers at RSPB Worth Marshes

Bruno has made a massive impact on my life, despite the fact he was "adopted" to assist with Bev's anxiety issues. Our daily walks have to be undertaken in places where other dog-walkers are unlikely to be encountered. Living in East Kent, I am very fortunate that the flatlands surround Thanet and, therefore, it is possible to spot, thus react to the presence of, another dog(walker) by changing our route and avoiding a Bruno melt-down, should someone else, and their mutt, also be enjoying the surroundings!

Female Marsh Harrier, over Minster Marshes, this morning.

RSPB Worth Marshes provides a brilliant option during the Monday - Friday period, as does Stodmarsh/Grove Ferry NNR, yet it has to be Minster Marshes on Saturday & Sunday, purely because we are able to wander, freely, around an area with limited public access. Under these current circumstances I am very aware of how much the local wildlife is able to impact, in a positive manner, on my demenour. My nocturnal feeding station has certainly taken on some extra focus, under the current circumstances, and I am delighted that one of the Vixens has gained enough confidence to allow me to keep the back door open, hence get far superior photo opportunities.

Blogging might become a little erratic, dependant upon how Bev's treatment impacts upon our daily routine? I will do my best to keep posting just because by sharing the experiences, I am able to keep a level of calm within this uncharted journey.


4 comments:

  1. Dyl, So sorry to hear this news about Bev. Rest assured, all readers of this blog are of this view also. Such is the difficulty of finding appropriate words, if there are any, for a situation such as this, that we are shocked into silence. I care.
    Best Wishes
    Ric

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    1. Thanks Ric, your words are very much appreciated - Dyl

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  2. Hey Dyl

    I'm a bit shit and fumble for words when it comes to the serious things in life. I can only echo the above comments from Ric

    Thinking of you and yours.

    Andy

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    1. Thanks Andy,
      You know it's pretty serious shit when it prevents me attending a PAC meeting! We now have to place our trust in the medical guys/gals and hope that they can steer us through this situation? I consider myself very fortunate to have such a close-knit, and supportive, family plus so many friends and neighbours who are also there when we need them!
      Dyl

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